When ‘Healing Doesn’t Work’ – Healing at its Deepest Level – Uncovering the True Causes Behind Emotional Struggles

Posted on May 9, 2025 by Spiritual Healer

Healing at Its Deepest Level: Uncovering the True Causes Behind Emotional Struggles

When healing ‘doesn’t work’

AUDIO  Many people facing depression, exhaustion, anger management difficulties, confusion, and lack of motivation turn to therapy in search of relief. From traditional counselling to alternative healing, countless approaches have been explored – yet many find that nothing has helped.

Here in Ubud, Bali – an internationally recognised centre for healing – I offer a transformational therapy that goes far beyond surface-level symptoms. My approach uncovers the true root cause of emotional distress and chronic conditions, addressing deeply hidden childhood traumas and repressed emotions.

The Hidden Pain Beneath Emotional & Physical Struggles

Behind anxiety, depression, and even chronic physical conditions lies emotional repression, often stemming from childhood experiences. A child who faces mistreatment or neglect from their parents struggles to comprehend such rejection. Instead of processing their pain, the child subconsciously redirects it elsewhere – manifesting lifelong patterns of self-sabotage, chronic illness, and emotional distress.

This psychological mechanism often keeps people stuck, unknowingly blocking their healing. Jelila says, “Many clients tell me they had a ‘wonderful childhood,’ yet moments earlier, they recalled vivid incidents of criticism, neglect, or abuse.” This contradiction reveals a protective instinct – an unwillingness to accept past mistreatment because it conflicts with their deep-seated belief that they are lovable.

Therapies Often Fall Short

Many therapies focus on discussing the past but rarely access the deeply buried emotions that create ongoing suffering. If healing attempts haven’t worked, it’s often not the fault of the healers – but the subconscious resistance to uncovering painful truths.

Some clients unknowingly protect their trauma from themselves, preventing them from truly healing. Superficial approaches – endless talking therapy, generic energy healing, or temporary mood shifts -don’t reach the deeper psychological and emotional reprogramming required for lasting change.

The Reprogramming Method: A Powerful Approach to Real Healing

Through my unique method, Reprogramming and Deep Reprogramming, clients quickly uncover psychological patterns and release hidden negative beliefs that silently shape their lives.

Rather than skimming the surface, these techniques reach deep within the subconscious and shift long-held perceptions about self-worth, safety, and emotional freedom. With guidance, you can access long-buried feelings, acknowledge their source, and stop attracting negativity into your life.

Other highly effective healing techniques include:
– The Open-Mouth Breath – A simple yet powerful process that releases suppressed emotions and teaches individuals how to truly feel again.
– Past-Life Journey – A gentle, non-traumatic method of releasing repressed emotions, tracing suffering back to original causes – even from previous lifetimes.

A Call to True Healing

If you’ve been searching for healing – seeing doctors, energy workers, therapists, and fortune tellers, yet nothing seems to work – it may be time to ask yourself: Am I afraid to uncover the real cause of my suffering?

True transformation requires courage – to accept past wounds, shift ingrained patterns, and step into emotional freedom.

By reprogramming your belief system, releasing emotional repression, and deeply acknowledging past trauma, you can finally break free, healing chronic problems and stepping into a new, positive, fulfilling reality.

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About Jelila
With over 28 years of successful healing practice, Jelila offers online and distance healing sessions, specialising in Reprogramming, Deep Reprogramming, Past-Life Journey, and other groundbreaking techniques. She appeared at top resorts such as Four Seasons and has been featured in publications such as Simply Her Singapore and Garuda In-flight Magazine.

Explore her books (The Gift of Harmony, Alien Wedding, The Gift of Self-Love, and more) available on Amazon & Kindle, and browse her crystal healing jewellery online.

 

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Heal, Grow, Thrive: Transform Your Outlook to Make Life Easier

Posted on February 15, 2025 by Spiritual Healer

Heal, Grow, Thrive: Transform Your Outlook to Make Life Easier

In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the challenges and obstacles that life throws our way. However, by transforming our outlook and embracing a positive mindset, we can unlock our true potential and create a life of abundance and joy. As an international healer, I have witnessed the profound impact that a shift in perspective can have on individuals’ lives. Here are some key benefits of transforming your outlook and how it can make your life easier.

1. Overcoming Challenges with Resilience

Life is full of ups and downs, but how we respond to these challenges can make all the difference. By adopting a positive outlook, we can build resilience and face difficulties with greater strength and determination. When we view challenges as opportunities for growth, we become more resourceful and better equipped to handle whatever comes our way. This shift in perspective allows us to navigate life’s obstacles with grace and emerge stronger than before.

2. Unlocking Your True Potential

A positive outlook can help you unlock your true potential by encouraging you to pursue your passions and dreams. When you believe in yourself and your abilities, you are more likely to take risks and seize opportunities that come your way. This newfound confidence can lead to personal and professional growth, as you become more open to exploring new possibilities and pushing your boundaries.

3. Creating a Life of Abundance

Transforming your outlook can also attract abundance into your life. By focusing on gratitude and appreciating the present moment, you can cultivate a mindset of abundance and attract positive experiences. When you shift your focus from what you lack to what you have, you open yourself up to receiving more blessings and opportunities. This mindset of abundance can lead to greater happiness and fulfillment in all areas of your life.

4. Building Stronger Relationships

A positive outlook can improve your relationships by fostering empathy, understanding, and compassion. When you approach interactions with a positive attitude, you are more likely to build meaningful connections and resolve conflicts with ease. This can lead to healthier and more fulfilling relationships, both personally and professionally. By focusing on the positive aspects of others and expressing gratitude, you can create a supportive and harmonious environment.

5. Enhancing Mental and Physical Well-being

Your outlook on life has a significant impact on your mental and physical well-being. A positive mindset can reduce stress, boost your immune system, and improve overall health. When you focus on positivity, you release feel-good hormones like endorphins and serotonin, which can enhance your mood and energy levels. This, in turn, can lead to a more vibrant and fulfilling life, as you become more proactive in taking care of your health and well-being.

Join Our Healing Community

If you’re ready to transform your outlook and make your life easier, I invite you to join our healing community. Our community is a safe space where you can explore your deepest desires, release limitations, and achieve your goals. With personalized healing sessions, you’ll gain the tools and insights needed to navigate life’s obstacles and emerge stronger and more empowered. Connect with like-minded individuals and embark on a journey of growth and self-discovery with expert guidance.

Heal, Grow, Thrive: Join Jelila’s Healing Community
Experience transformative healing sessions designed to help you overcome life’s challenges, unlock your true potential, and create the life you’ve always desired. Connect with like-minded individuals and embark on a journey of growth and self-discovery with expert guidance from Jelila.

Together, we can achieve the extraordinary and create a life filled with abundance and joy. Embrace the power of a positive outlook and start your transformation today.

Warm regards,

Jelila
International Healer

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Lemurian Dreaming

Posted on November 26, 2023 by Spiritual Healer
Hello!  I’ve just released a new music video Lemurian Dreaming, with AI images, on my YouTube channel, JeliLala – please follow me there! I hope you enjoy it! Lemurian Dreaming
Lemurian Dreaming is my song about Lemuria, a civilisation around the time of Atlantis, about 13,500 years ago. Lemuria was the last time when people were balanced within – the doing, feeling, playful and spiritual parts of the self were in harmony. Rather than being dominated by the masculine, doing part of the self as most people are now. The song goes back to Lemuria and shares some of my memories of how it felt back then. I’ve used the magic of DA.LE 3. AI to generate some images that share something like what I see in my mind’s eye, when I’m singing this song. I described my visions and AI generated amazing images of them! My healing process, The Gift of Harmony, which balances and unites four different parts of the self, was originally called ‘Lemurian Healing’ – but I renamed it, as nobody knew what Lemurian was, back then… about 18 years ago. This song is the title track from my album, Lemurian Dreaming, about Lemuria which you can find, along with the lyrics, at https://Jelila.bandcamp.com (please follow me there too! You’ll find some free downloads.) Lemurian Dreaming itself, refers to a healing technique using light language – it means – being in a different state of consciousness where one can manifest desires by visualising them. ‘Light lines’ mentioned in the song, are lines of sacred geometric shapes in various colours – this is the process of manifestation – it is done by creating light language – actually we all know how to do this but we’ve kind of forgotten that we know! I hope you enjoy the music and the remarkable AI images, which allow me to share some of my ancient memories with you. This recording is the first time I ever sang this song. The first time I sang it after I had channeled the words. Because it’s about a wonderful world, and a wonderful Harmony within, that we lost, you’ll hear me crying in the middle of it. Also crying for this very masculinised and uncaring world that we have now, and desiring to change it, as I do, through all my healing expressions. The song is a figure of eight – infinity sign – it swims you back to Lemuria, lets you feel that energy, and then the other side of the figure of eight pulls Lemuria into the present so we can feel it now and recreate it again. You’ll hear the beginning words ‘temperate waters, blue water walkways’ again, towards the end – and that’s where we’ve come back around. Where, we’ve visited Lemuria, re-discovered that energy -and now we’re bringing it into the present. Don’t be surprised if you need to sleep after listening – it is healing music so you need to integrate what you discover, and feel, by listening. Don’t listen while driving! Blessings, Jelila 🙂 Find out more about Jelila’s healing methods, The Gift of Harmony, and sound healing music at: https://Jelila.com

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Stop your negative head talk permanently? Whaaaat? – Listen to a free chapter

Posted on September 25, 2023 by Spiritual Healer

The Gift of Harmony is a radical new way of understanding yourself, by Jelila. Simple, yet profound, you’ll discover why your world is as it is – and how you can change it – all by working with 4 key parts of yourself, who up to now, have been behind your negative mind talk, over-thinking, self destructing attitude, limiting behaviours, overwork yet with little reward, creative blocks, and relationship difficulties. Listen to a free chapter below.

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The Gift of Harmony book by Jelila is available on Amazon and Kindle

Listen to a Free Audio chapter. do the course with Jelila online

If you’d like to do The Gift of Harmony Transformation Course in person with Jelila online, please Whatsapp Message +6281339561271 now.  The radical course comprises 8 hours of Deep Reprogramming over 3-4 days. It utterly transforms how the 4 key parts of you relate, and resolves the problems described above, permanently. You’ll stop wasting 85-90% of your life-force energy on your inner conflict, and start being able to focus on actually achieving your dreams, after you do the course. Oh, you’ll also stop people-pleasing – so 100% of your time comes back under your control – positively increasing your abundance and wealth.

The Gift of Harmony Transformation Course is a proven process in which you release 11 hidden deep core beliefs, identified by Jelila, and complete 2 processes – Inner Relationship Matrix and Successful Relationship Transaction, to achieve ‘The Gift of Harmony’ within you – which frees up the four key parts of you to stop the internal war – and become a successful friendly team inside of you.

The cost to permanently transform your life and create your dreams is US$1,800 – a drop in the ocean when compared to traditional therapies – which don’t bring results, cost tens of thousands like $60,000, don’t work, and take years.  “This actually works!”

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Self-love – new Audio Book by Jelila

Posted on September 2, 2023 by Spiritual Healer

‘Why do I hate myself?’ – you will find out why, in this incredible audio book, by Jelila – and actually change it. You will acquire self-love, when you complete the simple process in this book – however hopeless, helpless, angry, or sad you might feel – When you complete this simple yet powerful process – you will love yourself – at last. Enjoy Jelila’s soothing voice: Listen to a free chapter

Actually acquire self-love by doing the deep psychological process in this audio book, just once.  Jelila, international healer, explains how the real reason for a lack of self-love is coming from a surprising reason – a history of unhappy past lifetimes that have secretly made parts of you lose their desire for life, hate the fact that they exist, and …wish instead to escape completely! (Sound familiar?)

You’ll discover how your hidden, blocked memories of difficult existences have made you hate yourself, feel a terrible self-loathing, burn with a ferocious anger at yourself, or feel a horrifying sense of shame, loss, and not belonging, that can be very painful and debilitating and hard to understand.  And you’ll change it, permanently, bringing great relief.

The Audio book is 42 tracks of the author reading the full book, about 5 hours and 20 minutes of audio, which is also available as printed Amazon paper or Kindle ebook. The Audio and books take you through 11 deep beliefs, and give the full process to release them, with after-guidance tools, steps, and resources. The negative effect of each belief is described, along with its positive effects, when released. Additionally, how each belief shows up in 4 different parts of you, your ‘Gift Characters’ – how they respond – both positively, and negatively, is also fully explained, so you can really see the effects of each belief in detail, on yourself, your life, and your relationships. The printed books have 100 whimsical, funny illustrations by Jelila, helping to clarify her message.

In this audio book, Jelila takes you by the hand and leads you through your negative landscape of hidden self-disgust drivers, explaining on the way how they got there, due to negative past historical events, that form the back-drop of your struggles – but we’re not, actually, your fault – and through a surprising, deceptively simple process where you place 11 deep old hidden negative thoughts, negative beliefs, in your hands, one by one, and say some special positive suggestion words, and bring your hands together, you’ll activate your hidden, genius, ‘chakra system’ to process this old negativity out of you, which releases it from your system once and for all, permanently, and replaces it with a new positive life concept within you, that Jelila shares. Listen to a free chapter

Get this incredible audio book, and change your life forever, for it contains the actual secret yet simple psychological process that brings you self-love, from an expert therapist, Jelila, who has literally solved the same problem in tens of thousands of her clients, saving them from self-hatred and rescuing their sense of self-worth, in 25 years of successful healing and mind therapy. 

>>>If you’d prefer to do this process individually, with Jelila, online as therapy, it takes 10 hours, and costs US$2,200 Please message or Whatsapp +6281339561271 or email jelila@jelila.com to set that up.<<<
This simple, yet profound thesis on self-love will change your life forever, and bring you the actual positive mind-set that allows you, at last, to love yourself, which really means, love your decision to exist, love the decision that you made to incarnate, love your choice to come here, and be present in your body, in this life-time. Along the way, as you complete the simple yet profound process, you will acquire self-love, promises the author, who has helped tens of thousands of people to overcome this actual same problem, through her successful 25 year Healing practise (you can read actual reviews from Jelila’s clients about this, on Trip Advisor) and on her website, Jelila.com

Stop your negative mind-talk. Release your sense of not belonging in your family. Fix your irrational feelings of shame, anger, frustration, self-hatred and self-disgust, and overcome your limiting procrastination and inability to act, as Jelila gently and  expertly leads you logically out of the pit of despair and into a brilliant new day – of self-honouring, self-acceptance, belonging, support, deservedness, self-esteem, self-worth, clarity, easy decision-making, renewed hope, and popularity among those you love the most.

‘I just want to love myself’ – six little words, but so hard to do! Jelila actually shows you how, and promises: ‘You will have self-love, once you release the 11 deep blocks I’ve shared in this book – and you will really have self-love – in a way that you never will, with journals, practices and all the other self-care stuff which actually never works – because it doesn’t reach the real cause of the problem. My book does – and when you do this process, you will have self-love – it will help you, transform you, in a way that nothing else can – I promise!’ Listen to a free chapter

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Which Crystals can relieve pain, help with natural pain relief?

Posted on September 30, 2014 by Spiritual Healer

Hi!  I’m Jelila, International Healer.  One of my clients, Tatiana, said: ‘I have felt pain for a number of years. Wearing Jelila’s pain management crystal healing necklace has stopped it almost right away and I feel much better’.   Watch Tatiana on Video.  Get yours here

Which Crystals can relieve pain, help with pain relief?

 

How does it work?  Crystals possess different resonant vibrations and when combined, can be used to ‘say’ complex things to your body.  They can express a healthy feeling vibration that your body picks up.  In addition, The Pain Managemente crystal healing necklace by Jelila is special, because it contains a ‘Light Language Grid’ – a ‘program’ which defines methods that your body can use for self-healing.  Think of it as being a bit like a download program from the internet – that your body can use.

 

What kind of pain does it work on?  Any kind – that’s why it needed a ‘Light Language Grid’ – a special program – to make it work – because that’s quite a complex thing to ask it to do – it could help with emotional pain, or physical pain, or anything that is ‘a pain’ in your life.

 

How does it do that?  It guides you to embrace and accept your ’emotional pain’ – the hidden stuff that you are converting into physical or other kinds of ‘pain’ – as you have not been able to accept and process it on an emotional level.  As such it will tend to bring healing, transformation, and love.

 

How do I pick up the positive energy?  You just wear it, or have it near you, in your ‘aura’ – a field of light that stretches about 1 metre around your body – in order to benefit from it.

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Ghost Crystals, Shadow Crystals, Angel Crystals – what do they mean? Clear Quartz Crystals

Posted on June 10, 2014 by Spiritual Healer

Why do some crystals have a Ghost or Shadow inside, like an Angel Crystal?

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Ghost Crystals, Shadow Crystals, Angel Crystals - what do they mean? Clear Quartz Crystals

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Who am I anyway? What’s going on inside me? Why is my life like this?

Posted on June 6, 2014 by Spiritual Healer

As you understand 4 key parts of yourself that I call your ‘Gift Characters’ – you start to understand that you are not, in face, crazy – it’s just that 4 different parts need to get together and start working together in harmony! ho hum.

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Who am I anyway? What's going on inside me? Why is my life like this?

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What Crystals are Enlightening? What Crystals Activate your Third Eye Chakra? Activate Crown Chakra?

Posted on June 3, 2014 by Spiritual Healer

Crystals that open your 3rd Eye, Activate your Crown Chakra and Upper Chakras are the more ethereal kinds of light Purple, Shimmery, Clear Quartz Crystals and Pearls.

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What Crystals are Enlightening? What Crystals work on the Higher Chakras? Third Eye Crown Cryst

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What Crystals help you feel Peaceful? What Crystals Help Meditation? Crystals open the Third Eye?

Posted on June 2, 2014 by Spiritual Healer

Crystals can help you feel Peaceful, open your Third Eye, and help Meditation.
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What Crystals help you feel Peaceful? What Crystals Help Meditation? Crystals open the Third Eye?

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