✨ A New Kind of Therapy for Burnout That Actually Works – For high-performing women having a crisis

When rest and ‘self-care’ aren’t enough—let’s face it, if you could do that, you’d be doing it already, wouldn’t you?—and the breakdown is threatening to begin, I offer a radical, refreshing approach that actually helps. And fast.

Not only that—you’ll come to understand the conflicts, dynamics and patterns within you that have been causing the problem. And you’ll get to actually change them by directly transforming hidden negative beliefs in your subconscious mind using my unique, simple yet genius process.


🌿 How It Works

The root of your never-ending effort and persistent sense of not being good enough is what drives you to keep striving—yet never feel satisfied.
This painful pattern is incredibly common, and it can be released by identifying and transforming a specific deep subconscious belief.
Once that belief shifts, the pattern dissolves—and you no longer need to keep proving your worth through exhaustion.


✨ Tell Me:

  1. Anything that bothers you
  2. Anything you’d like to change
  3. Anything you’d like to be able to create that you haven’t been able to create yet

Just a mind dump—there’s no need to organise it. I will organise it for you.


💬 A Client’s Experience

*“It was very surprising how Jelila could use the three questions I answered and then suddenly seem to know everything about me! She asked small questions that were spot on, and after defining my issues a bit more, she guided me to place some concepts I believed in imaginary balls between my hands. I was amazed that I could actually feel resistance when I tried to bring my hands together! Jelila explained that this was the resistance I feel in everyday life around that issue.

When we finished processing the issue—breathing through my mouth and relaxing as Jelila guided me—she told me the new positive belief I’d received as the old negative one was released.

This was so exciting. I could see how I’d been creating my own problem internally without realising it. It gave me so much insight going forward—but the main change is that I actually don’t have that pattern anymore!

Since the session, I’ve felt a kind of eerie silence—but a nice silence—when those triggers arise. They just don’t affect me anymore.”*


🌸 Ready to Begin?

If you’re a high-performing woman having a crisis—and you’re ready to stop coping and start transforming—I invite you to begin your journey here.

📞 Contact


🌿 Begin Your Sovereign Recalibration

Visit www.jelila.com to explore offerings, book a session, or listen to Jelila speak about her unique methods in various MP3s.
You don’t need to break down to break through. Let’s begin.


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The Treasure Map to the Ideal You, with Jelila

You can’t plant a beautiful garden in ‘Tangled Roots’ – you need to clear the ground, first!

“I’ve done therapy for years, but one session with you shifted something I couldn’t reach before.”
— Inner Child & Ancestral Healing

“I still feel the effects weeks later. It’s like something inside me finally clicked into place.”
— Chakra Balancing & Energy Realignment

Here are the ‘9 Jewels’ that you can work on, once you’ve cleared those roots!

Here’s The Treasure Map to the Ideal You – You can read more about each section, below.

Here are the steps to your transformation… The Tangled Roots…

  1. Tangled Roots
    Beneath the surface lies a twisted network of limiting subconscious beliefs – much more severe than most people would ever imagine. Clearing it alone is near-impossible. Deep Reprogramming untangles the garden and unlocks your path to the Nine Jewels, where life begins to blossom anew.
  2. Garden of Emotional Release & Forgiveness
    Softly revisit past experiences, accepting feelings without getting lost in the drama of the story. This gentle act releases blocked emotions and dissolves trauma at the root – even across lifetimes – restoring peace and setting patterns free – real letting go, at last. Permanent and complete trauma release in a gentle and fulfilling way.
  3. Investing in the Bigger Programs

These transformative journeys are deep, rich shortcuts to joy.
The Gift of Harmony is a soul-level rewiring of people-pleasing, frees you from the work treadmill, reunites your creative and emotional self, wins back your time, and more
Alien Wedding explores ancient planetary themes – perfect for spiritual seekers ready to understand humanity’s deeper story.
The Gift of Self-Love heals 13 core beliefs and builds lasting, authentic self-acceptance.

  1. The 9 Jewel path

After completing the foundational clearing of 1, 2, and perhaps 3, (and hopefully avoiding 8!) you may enter The Nine Jewels Path, where you master confidence, abundance, love, and more, in a special series of 9 ‘Jewels’ – 9 fascinating and helpful topics like Confidence, Getting the Love You Want, Life Purpose & Direction, and more, – at a reduced rate of 30% off – a thank-you for the investment you made in clearing your ‘Tangled Roots’.

  1. The Land of New Possibilities

As you start to succeed in freeing yourself from the negativity, difficulty, and struggle of the past, a whole new vista of possibilities opens up for you.

  1. After: Fun and Play

Joy returns naturally after clearing your Tangled Roots with deep sessions like Deep Reprogramming, Past Life Journey (permanent yet gentle trauma clearing), and perhaps The Gift of Harmony. The Creativity Jewel amplifies it further, reigniting your inner child. Plus, the magical Ubud Fairy Village Cafe becomes your haven for play, inspiration, and delicious moments, with 10% off for honoured clients.

  1. After: Helping Others

Once you’ve integrated your transformation, you’re ready to guide. You only need to be half a step ahead. Train with Jelila in Polarity Shift, The Reprogramming, Deep Reprogramming, or learn to teach The Gift of Harmony. Crystal and energy healing also await – when the time feels right.

Carefully avoiding:

  1. The Lack of Commitment Mire

A muddy bog where self-doubt whispers and hesitation wins. You start the journey, feel the stirrings of transformation – your soul guides you to Jelila, for the biggest change of your life – then one moment of fear pulls you back. Don’t get stuck panicking about ‘value’ – or ‘will it work for me’ – it does and it will! Summon courage and step through the Gate of Effort and Self-Renewal, to your delightful transformation.

How to begin:

As you go through your transformation, the path gets easier and clearer – because the ‘big rock’ removal, and the heavy lifting, is done at the beginning. Then the job is ‘refining’ other, also important, areas – freeing you more and more at every step, until your life becomes a shining jewel of fulfilment – in all areas!

What Clients Say:

✨ Healing Client Testimonials

“I felt like years of emotional weight just melted away. I’ve never felt so light and clear.”
— Energy Clearing & Emotional Release Session

“Your presence is so calming. I felt safe to open up in ways I never have before.”
— Trauma-Informed Somatic Healing

“It was like you saw right into my soul. Everything you said resonated so deeply.”
— Intuitive Guidance & Soul Alignment Session

“I came in with physical pain and left feeling not just better physically, but spiritually renewed.”
— Integrated Body & Energy Healing

“I’ve done therapy for years, but one session with you shifted something I couldn’t reach before.”
— Inner Child & Ancestral Healing

“I still feel the effects weeks later. It’s like something inside me finally clicked into place.”
— Chakra Balancing & Energy Realignment

🌿 Ready to Begin Your Journey?
To step into your very own Treasure Map and awaken new realms of possibility, simply message Jelila on WhatsApp: +62 813 3956 1271 or via Email.

✨ If you’re already part of our circle, Jelila will intuitively guide you to where you are in the program and help you continue your path through tailor-made remote sessions. Each step leads you closer to the dream life that’s already calling your name—and it may arrive much sooner than you think…

The Treasure Map…

The 9 Jewels Path…

Whatsapp message Jelila +6281339561271 for a free evaluation of where you’re at now, and to gently begin your journey.

Just say hi and I will create your personal healing plan and first step

Message me now and I’ll ask you 3 simple questions that will make your next step very clear!

Lemurian Dreaming

Hello!  I’ve just released a new music video Lemurian Dreaming, with AI images, on my YouTube channel, JeliLala – please follow me there! I hope you enjoy it! Lemurian Dreaming
Lemurian Dreaming is my song about Lemuria, a civilisation around the time of Atlantis, about 13,500 years ago. Lemuria was the last time when people were balanced within – the doing, feeling, playful and spiritual parts of the self were in harmony. Rather than being dominated by the masculine, doing part of the self as most people are now. The song goes back to Lemuria and shares some of my memories of how it felt back then. I’ve used the magic of DA.LE 3. AI to generate some images that share something like what I see in my mind’s eye, when I’m singing this song. I described my visions and AI generated amazing images of them! My healing process, The Gift of Harmony, which balances and unites four different parts of the self, was originally called ‘Lemurian Healing’ – but I renamed it, as nobody knew what Lemurian was, back then… about 18 years ago. This song is the title track from my album, Lemurian Dreaming, about Lemuria which you can find, along with the lyrics, at https://Jelila.bandcamp.com (please follow me there too! You’ll find some free downloads.) Lemurian Dreaming itself, refers to a healing technique using light language – it means – being in a different state of consciousness where one can manifest desires by visualising them. ‘Light lines’ mentioned in the song, are lines of sacred geometric shapes in various colours – this is the process of manifestation – it is done by creating light language – actually we all know how to do this but we’ve kind of forgotten that we know! I hope you enjoy the music and the remarkable AI images, which allow me to share some of my ancient memories with you. This recording is the first time I ever sang this song. The first time I sang it after I had channeled the words. Because it’s about a wonderful world, and a wonderful Harmony within, that we lost, you’ll hear me crying in the middle of it. Also crying for this very masculinised and uncaring world that we have now, and desiring to change it, as I do, through all my healing expressions. The song is a figure of eight – infinity sign – it swims you back to Lemuria, lets you feel that energy, and then the other side of the figure of eight pulls Lemuria into the present so we can feel it now and recreate it again. You’ll hear the beginning words ‘temperate waters, blue water walkways’ again, towards the end – and that’s where we’ve come back around. Where, we’ve visited Lemuria, re-discovered that energy -and now we’re bringing it into the present. Don’t be surprised if you need to sleep after listening – it is healing music so you need to integrate what you discover, and feel, by listening. Don’t listen while driving! Blessings, Jelila 🙂 Find out more about Jelila’s healing methods, The Gift of Harmony, and sound healing music at: https://Jelila.com

Stop your negative head talk permanently? Whaaaat? – Listen to a free chapter

The Gift of Harmony is a radical new way of understanding yourself, by Jelila. Simple, yet profound, you’ll discover why your world is as it is – and how you can change it – all by working with 4 key parts of yourself, who up to now, have been behind your negative mind talk, over-thinking, self destructing attitude, limiting behaviours, overwork yet with little reward, creative blocks, and relationship difficulties. Listen to a free chapter below.

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The Gift of Harmony book by Jelila is available on Amazon and Kindle

Listen to a Free Audio chapter. do the course with Jelila online

If you’d like to do The Gift of Harmony Transformation Course in person with Jelila online, please Whatsapp Message +6281339561271 now.  The radical course comprises 8 hours of Deep Reprogramming over 3-4 days. It utterly transforms how the 4 key parts of you relate, and resolves the problems described above, permanently. You’ll stop wasting 85-90% of your life-force energy on your inner conflict, and start being able to focus on actually achieving your dreams, after you do the course. Oh, you’ll also stop people-pleasing – so 100% of your time comes back under your control – positively increasing your abundance and wealth.

The Gift of Harmony Transformation Course is a proven process in which you release 11 hidden deep core beliefs, identified by Jelila, and complete 2 processes – Inner Relationship Matrix and Successful Relationship Transaction, to achieve ‘The Gift of Harmony’ within you – which frees up the four key parts of you to stop the internal war – and become a successful friendly team inside of you.

The cost to permanently transform your life and create your dreams is US$1,800 – a drop in the ocean when compared to traditional therapies – which don’t bring results, cost tens of thousands like $60,000, don’t work, and take years.  “This actually works!”

Listen to a free chapter     Jelila’s Website

Self-love – new Audio Book by Jelila

‘Why do I hate myself?’ – you will find out why, in this incredible audio book, by Jelila – and actually change it. You will acquire self-love, when you complete the simple process in this book – however hopeless, helpless, angry, or sad you might feel – When you complete this simple yet powerful process – you will love yourself – at last. Enjoy Jelila’s soothing voice: Listen to a free chapter

Actually acquire self-love by doing the deep psychological process in this audio book, just once.  Jelila, international healer, explains how the real reason for a lack of self-love is coming from a surprising reason – a history of unhappy past lifetimes that have secretly made parts of you lose their desire for life, hate the fact that they exist, and …wish instead to escape completely! (Sound familiar?)

You’ll discover how your hidden, blocked memories of difficult existences have made you hate yourself, feel a terrible self-loathing, burn with a ferocious anger at yourself, or feel a horrifying sense of shame, loss, and not belonging, that can be very painful and debilitating and hard to understand.  And you’ll change it, permanently, bringing great relief.

The Audio book is 42 tracks of the author reading the full book, about 5 hours and 20 minutes of audio, which is also available as printed Amazon paper or Kindle ebook. The Audio and books take you through 11 deep beliefs, and give the full process to release them, with after-guidance tools, steps, and resources. The negative effect of each belief is described, along with its positive effects, when released. Additionally, how each belief shows up in 4 different parts of you, your ‘Gift Characters’ – how they respond – both positively, and negatively, is also fully explained, so you can really see the effects of each belief in detail, on yourself, your life, and your relationships. The printed books have 100 whimsical, funny illustrations by Jelila, helping to clarify her message.

In this audio book, Jelila takes you by the hand and leads you through your negative landscape of hidden self-disgust drivers, explaining on the way how they got there, due to negative past historical events, that form the back-drop of your struggles – but we’re not, actually, your fault – and through a surprising, deceptively simple process where you place 11 deep old hidden negative thoughts, negative beliefs, in your hands, one by one, and say some special positive suggestion words, and bring your hands together, you’ll activate your hidden, genius, ‘chakra system’ to process this old negativity out of you, which releases it from your system once and for all, permanently, and replaces it with a new positive life concept within you, that Jelila shares. Listen to a free chapter

Get this incredible audio book, and change your life forever, for it contains the actual secret yet simple psychological process that brings you self-love, from an expert therapist, Jelila, who has literally solved the same problem in tens of thousands of her clients, saving them from self-hatred and rescuing their sense of self-worth, in 25 years of successful healing and mind therapy. 

>>>If you’d prefer to do this process individually, with Jelila, online as therapy, it takes 10 hours, and costs US$2,200 Please message or Whatsapp +6281339561271 or email jelila@jelila.com to set that up.<<<
This simple, yet profound thesis on self-love will change your life forever, and bring you the actual positive mind-set that allows you, at last, to love yourself, which really means, love your decision to exist, love the decision that you made to incarnate, love your choice to come here, and be present in your body, in this life-time. Along the way, as you complete the simple yet profound process, you will acquire self-love, promises the author, who has helped tens of thousands of people to overcome this actual same problem, through her successful 25 year Healing practise (you can read actual reviews from Jelila’s clients about this, on Trip Advisor) and on her website, Jelila.com

Stop your negative mind-talk. Release your sense of not belonging in your family. Fix your irrational feelings of shame, anger, frustration, self-hatred and self-disgust, and overcome your limiting procrastination and inability to act, as Jelila gently and  expertly leads you logically out of the pit of despair and into a brilliant new day – of self-honouring, self-acceptance, belonging, support, deservedness, self-esteem, self-worth, clarity, easy decision-making, renewed hope, and popularity among those you love the most.

‘I just want to love myself’ – six little words, but so hard to do! Jelila actually shows you how, and promises: ‘You will have self-love, once you release the 11 deep blocks I’ve shared in this book – and you will really have self-love – in a way that you never will, with journals, practices and all the other self-care stuff which actually never works – because it doesn’t reach the real cause of the problem. My book does – and when you do this process, you will have self-love – it will help you, transform you, in a way that nothing else can – I promise!’ Listen to a free chapter

More music & audio by Jelila: jelila.bandcamp.com

Website: jelila.com

Online Store: jelilahealing.storenvy.com

Instagram: @Online_Healer

Tel: +62 81339561271

Discover the power of Crystals – which Crystals help Migraine?

A headache is stuck energy in your head. Find out how the gentle vibration of crystals can help get it moving and relieve your headache or migraine, here.
Discover the power of Crystals - which Crystals help Migraine?

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Who am I anyway? What’s going on inside me? Why is my life like this?

As you understand 4 key parts of yourself that I call your ‘Gift Characters’ – you start to understand that you are not, in face, crazy – it’s just that 4 different parts need to get together and start working together in harmony! ho hum.

Find out more here.

Who am I anyway?  What's going on inside me?  Why is my life like this?

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Base Chakra Crystals. Which Crystals are good for Negativity? Grounding Crystals.

Crystals can help to ground and release your negativity, pulling it away from you naturally, so you feel better. Crystals can help to balance your Base Chakra so you feel settled and safe.

Find out more, here.
Base Chakra Crystals.  Which Crystals are good for Negativity?  Grounding Crystals.

What is the Meaning of Life? How can I understand myself? Why do these things always Happen to Me

Want life to Make More Sense?

As you discover how there are 4 key characters within you, and that Life is simply mirroring back to you each of these parts of yourself – you reach a greater self-understanding – and your relationships become easier too!

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What is the Meaning of Life?  How can I understand myself?  Why do these things always Happen to Me

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What Crystals are Enlightening? What Crystals Activate your Third Eye Chakra? Activate Crown Chakra?

Crystals that open your 3rd Eye, Activate your Crown Chakra and Upper Chakras are the more ethereal kinds of light Purple, Shimmery, Clear Quartz Crystals and Pearls.

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What Crystals are Enlightening? What Crystals work on the Higher Chakras?  Third Eye Crown Cryst

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