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How well are you truly doing at building the life you want?
Here’s a gentle yet revealing quiz to help you reflect. Whether you’re answering for yourself or your organisation, rate each area from 1 to 10 — where 10 is full expression and 1 is just beginning.
The Four Worlds of You
- Physical World
Resources, home, abundance, money, and getting things done.
Score (1–10): - Emotional World
How happy do you feel? Are you expressing your emotions and connecting deeply? Are you doing what you truly want?
Score (1–10): - Playful World
How much fun do you have? Are you expressing creativity — through art, dance, music, play?
Score (1–10): - Wise World
How much do you express your spirituality — through yoga, meditation, nature, or community contribution?
Score (1–10): - Your Dream
Do you have a dream you long to achieve? How far have you come in creating it?
Score (1–10):
What Your Scores Reveal
Write your numbers down. Notice which areas feel nourished — and which are calling for more attention. You may find you’re over-invested in one domain while others quietly yearn for expression.
Did your scores feel balanced? Or did one world dominate?
In Western culture, we often over-focus on the Physical World — the Doing One. But within you, there are three other vital aspects:
– The Feeling One
– The Playful One
– The Wise One
These parts need equal expression for your life to feel meaningful and satisfying.
Why Bali Changed Everything
It wasn’t simply arriving in Bali that transformed my life — it was what Bali allowed me to notice.
This sacred island offered a unique energetic invitation to explore the other side of myself: the emotional, playful, and wise aspects that had long been overshadowed by the Doing One. Here, I didn’t just live differently — I actively explored the psychological patterns within myself and others that had created imbalance.
Through this deep inquiry, I discovered 11 core subconscious beliefs that were silently shaping our lives and organisations. These became the foundation of my transformational framework: The Gift of Harmony.
A Tool for Transformation — The Gift of Harmony
Through 28 years of soul inquiry and my successful healing practice online and in Bali, I created The Gift of Harmony — an immersive 8-hour journey over 3 days.
This process works with deep subconscious belief systems to recalibrate the balance among your four inner archetypes. It fosters:
– Equality and fairness among your inner parts
– Respect, collaboration, and emotional safety
– A unified inner team that can co-create with clarity and joy
Only when this harmony is anchored within can it ripple outward — into your organisation, your community, and your family.
Is Your Organisation Balanced?
Ask yourself:
Is your organisation expressing the domineering, overactive masculine?
Or is it embodying the benevolent provider — the positive Doing One who listens, honours, and integrates the other three?
If your workplace needs more balance, I invite you to explore The Gift of Harmony. It’s more than a transformation — it’s a way of living, understanding, and creating soulful organisations.
The Four Archetypes in Organisations
| Archetype | Expression in Business |
|---|---|
| Masculine (Doing) | Project Management, Finance, Operations, Building |
| Feminine (Feeling) | HR, Payroll, Mental Health, Relationships, Connection |
| Child (Playful) | Creativity, Product Design, Sales, Marketing |
| Higher Self (Wise) | Planning, Community, Pensions, Yoga, Charities |
About The Gift of Harmony
A transformational programme for individuals and organisations seeking deep balance, soulful leadership, and lasting change.
About Jelila
Visionary soul mentor, author, and creator of The Gift of Harmony. Based in Bali, Jelila guides high-performing women and HR leaders through rapid, life-changing transformation. Her work has been featured in five-star resorts, global media, and award-winning healing experiences.
Contact
Ready to explore harmony in your life or organisation?
Let’s connect:
📞 Contact
To book your session or learn more, visit:
– Website: jelila.com
– Email: jelila@jelila.com
– WhatsApp: +62 813 395 61271
– Instagram: Online_Healer
– LinkedIn: Jelila
– WhatsApp me: https://wa.me/6281339561271
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