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Do you find it hard to complete projects, wrap things up, or even say a clear “no”?
Do you start with passion, only to get tangled in distractions or delays?
You’re not alone. The fear of finishing — of completing, ending, or succeeding — is surprisingly common. And often, it’s not laziness or lack of discipline. It’s something deeper.
It’s a fear of success.
But why would we fear success?
From guiding tens of thousands of clients, I’ve discovered that in the subconscious, “success” often means incarnating into the world.
Soul got in. “Yay, success!” I arrived.
And yet — many people carry a hidden resistance to that moment. A part of them whispers:
“Success, or being here, isn’t safe. It’s not a good thing.”
Strange, isn’t it?
Why would birth — our first act of creation — feel like failure?
🌍 Because there’s a collective memory.
A soul-echo of lifetimes spent in slavery, servitude, or suppression.
A belief that says: “I always have to do what I don’t want here. I always suffer. I don’t want to do that anymore.”
So what we’re really facing is a resistance to being alive.
A feeling that being here is a failure — because we can’t do what we truly want.
This is one of the core human programs I’ve identified.
It’s like dragging a boulder uphill — this subconscious weight that pulls you backwards.
And it’s one of the deep patterns we release in my 3-day immersion for Spiritual Masters, The Gift of Harmony, or in Deep Reprogramming sessions.
🌀 Daniel’s Journey — The Fear of Finishing
In one Reprogramming and Past Life Journey, a radiant client named Daniel arrived tangled in a web of beliefs.
He couldn’t finish anything. His life was littered with half-begun projects.
He was constantly battling “distractions” — but they were really soul-level diversions.
His birth story held a clue.
Daniel was due on April 1st — April Fool’s Day.
His mother tried to delay the birth to April 2nd, fearing the baby would be seen as foolish or ridiculous.
His soul purpose? “Looking for solutions.”
But when I asked, “What problem are you trying to solve?”
He paused. And then the belief emerged:
✨ “I’m an unexpected problem.”
He was trying to solve himself.
This led him to manifest endless problems — because we project what we believe we are.
Our “I am…” beliefs shape our world.
As I gently said to him, “You’re generating them.”
His eyes widened behind his glasses. And he smiled.
🌸 Beliefs Born at Birth
Here’s what was playing out:
- “My mother doesn’t want my creation to be a joke — so she’s delaying my birth.”
- “My birth is ridiculous.” (Meaning: unsafe to implement.)
- “I’m afraid of looking ridiculous around others.”
And “mother” here doesn’t just mean your biological mum.
It’s your inner feminine — the part of you that holds dreams, feelings, love, and lifetimes.
Daniel’s subconscious was saying:
“It’s not safe to finish anything. Later would be safer.”
But “later” never comes.
🧬 My Own Birth Story
My mother tried not to give birth on December 31st (my actual birthday).
She wanted to be in the papers for giving birth on January 1st.
So the belief might be:
- “I’m avoiding my birth to be famous.”
Which creates: avoiding creation, and not being famous.
I also heard:
- “My fascinating notion isn’t safe and free.”
(Where “fascinating notion” = what I’m here to create.)
So: “What I’m here to create is enslaving me.”
And: “I’m not safe to be in the papers.”
Which can manifest as fear around documents, visibility, or recognition.
Another layer:
- “I’ve scarpered before I came to the place of birth.”
Meaning: “I’m running away before I’ve even been born!”
🧠 Deep Belief Language
Human beliefs have a syntax — like a divine programming language.
Words may carry different meanings in belief than in English.
Some terms are fluid, others fixed.
It’s organic, messy, and alive.
When odd phrases arise, I ask my guides for the meaning in that moment.
And that’s what I share.
🌈 The Transformation
After our session, Daniel was radiant.
Luminescent. Smiling. Free.
He had released the fear of appearing ridiculous with his creations.
He no longer needed to delay, distract, or diminish his brilliance.
He could now complete what he wanted — without fearing ridicule.
He could birth his creations into the world.
✨ Ready to Finish What You Came Here to Create?
If you’d like to explore your own hidden subconscious landscape —
and release the deep beliefs that may be trapping you,
delaying your dreams, or dimming your creative fire —
then I warmly invite you to connect.
Together, we can gently untangle the threads,
reclaim your soul’s original blueprint,
and restore your power to complete what truly matters.
Please contact me to begin your journey of joyful completion and sovereign creation.
Soul Cleansing
The ‘Complete Do-over’ Session
US$800 per hour
US$1,200 for 1.5 hours
US$1,600 for 2 hours
Includes notes of all the beliefs you changed during the session.
Available remotely via Zoom.
📞 Contact
To book your session or learn more, visit:
– Website: jelila.com
– Email: jelila@jelila.com
– WhatsApp: +62 813 395 61271
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🌟About Jelila
Jelila is a visionary soul mentor, author of 10 books and 40 albums of healing music. Her work has appeared at The Four Seasons, The Westin, and REVĪVŌ. She was honoured with TripAdvisor’s Travellers’ Choice Award – top 10% of global experiences.
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